billhainh
Persian Prince
- 28/7/07
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The story goes on like this:
I have a younger brother, and he's kind of... not so enjoying his youth..
The boy's still at his 17, but he's pretty not so into studying at school much (His scores's $uck to the core.., like 2 chemicals, 1 maths, 0 physics...), and he's always say that he's working on a project on his own.
When I was his ages, I just doing my studying, and hanging out with friends to bars or just go outside for some work out. But this brother of mine's just like the other side of a coin. When he done school, he goes straight home, and lock himself inside his room. I watched him sometimes, the boys just go straight home like a good kid, and never saw him talked to a girl (Felt like I have such a loser for a brother
)
I once asked him: Why don't you just be a normal students?
He said, every students he saw are all different, and there ain't no "normal students" nor "special students", you are "students" when you are learning something.
Me: The f*ck are you learning? Why your score's so bad?
He said, the things he heard and noted at school, don't have a f*ck relation to what he's doing (which he said is developing, I guess he's trying to become some game-developer?) so he just don't care about what the school teach him, and self-teach himself what he needs.
He said that he's at the age to be working and training, so he's really doing it, and I don't have the right to interfere.
So, I begin to think about myself, and started to think, when was the first time I actually work in my life?
When was I produce things which I can be proud of?
When did I actually first start a thing called "project", then finish it?
It makes me wanted to ask that quesiton to you all:
When's the first time you actually working?
And, a side-question, should I let my brother do as he wish, and keep watching him, or should I guide him so that he focuses on university?
I have a younger brother, and he's kind of... not so enjoying his youth..
The boy's still at his 17, but he's pretty not so into studying at school much (His scores's $uck to the core.., like 2 chemicals, 1 maths, 0 physics...), and he's always say that he's working on a project on his own.
When I was his ages, I just doing my studying, and hanging out with friends to bars or just go outside for some work out. But this brother of mine's just like the other side of a coin. When he done school, he goes straight home, and lock himself inside his room. I watched him sometimes, the boys just go straight home like a good kid, and never saw him talked to a girl (Felt like I have such a loser for a brother
)I once asked him: Why don't you just be a normal students?
He said, every students he saw are all different, and there ain't no "normal students" nor "special students", you are "students" when you are learning something.
Me: The f*ck are you learning? Why your score's so bad?
He said, the things he heard and noted at school, don't have a f*ck relation to what he's doing (which he said is developing, I guess he's trying to become some game-developer?) so he just don't care about what the school teach him, and self-teach himself what he needs.
He said that he's at the age to be working and training, so he's really doing it, and I don't have the right to interfere.
So, I begin to think about myself, and started to think, when was the first time I actually work in my life?
When was I produce things which I can be proud of?
When did I actually first start a thing called "project", then finish it?
It makes me wanted to ask that quesiton to you all:
When's the first time you actually working?
And, a side-question, should I let my brother do as he wish, and keep watching him, or should I guide him so that he focuses on university?
otherwise you will not know what the hell is that and obviously, uneducated person can't be a decent person can they? i dont know but i acquire a lot from western education system and i reckon, the more you read, and write the better person you will be.